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Geraldine
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Registered: 06-29-2006 Location:
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posted on 06-29-2006 at 22:39 |
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lost and cofused someone please help me
Hi my name is Blanca,
i have a problem and i may need someones help to be honest with anyone that can help me. In high school i was the girl that most people thought i wasn;t a virgin which i am one till now. i had lot of guy friend but they all respect me because of the fact that im a virgin they didnt allow any other guys come near me thats why most girl would think that i wasnt a virgin because they took care of me .
now im 20yrs old and i have a boy friend wonderful guy he know that im a virgin i told him. i love him and he loves me i feel it. we have talk about make love not sex but im afraid, scared, lost, and confused. a part of me wants to but then the other part of me thinks of what my mom will say to me and i scared that i may get pregnant because i happen to some girl. i dont know can someone anyone help me lost and cofused
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luckycharmsuntouched
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Registered: 06-04-2006 Location:
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posted on 07-01-2006 at 00:59 |
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Blanca
You are 20 years old and are an adult. what you do is only your business. if you dont want to tell your mother about it, then dont. just be careful and make sure that feelings shared between you two are mutual before having sex because it is such an emotional act. make the decision which feels right for you. think about it and then execute the path you choose.
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VirginConnections
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Registered: 07-03-2006 Location: USA
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posted on 07-03-2006 at 15:08 |
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Should You Wait?
I am a 22 year old proud virgin and plan to stay that way until I am married. It's not because of religion although i am a Christian,but because so many people have sex with someone they think they love only to find out it wasn't love then they have sex with some else onlt to find out that wasn't true love either then they break up and meet and have sex with someone else only to find out that wasn't love either and the cycle cintues until you're in your forties and unmarried, but have had sex with so many people that was suppose to be "true love." Or maybe you are married and finally do find the one, but only after a string of sexual encounters. What kind of meaning does that have? Some may say, "Well at least I enjoyed the moment." To me moments should last forever. I know that half of all marriages end in divorce, but I personallt wouldn't feel as bad getting married then having sex then breaking up as I would not being married and having sex and then breaking up. If your'e willing to go through all the trouble of marriege at least you know for sure that there was a chance it was true love. If you're only shacking up. You both have the freedom to walk out on each other at any time with no strings attched and no legal interference. I wouldn't want to make it easy for a guy to walk out on me after I have given the most sacred part of me to him. Anyway that's my long-winded opnion. I'm trying to start a community of support for virgins everywhere with my new site:
Please check it out. Theres chat rooms, intercative stories and all sorts of exciting stuff I plan to add. Theres even an item section where you can purchase a shirt that reads "Proud Virgin (until married)" with more such shirts to come so, check it out!!! thank you!
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