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tinyfish
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Registered: 09-27-2004 Location:
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posted on 09-27-2004 at 10:22 |
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To break up, or not to break up??
here's the thing:
my boyfriend of almost a year just don't seem to want to make time for me anymore. I understand that our schedules are going to conflict because we both go to college (2 different schools) and I have 2 jobs and he has a job that he works a lot at. but, my thoughts are just that if he really wanted to spend time with me he would make the time, i make the time so why shouldn't he? am i right? it has been a month since the last time i have seen him. basically i want to know if it is time to move on??
all comments and advice are appreciated. thank you in advance!
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guyvirgin1977
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Posts: 61
Registered: 10-03-2004 Location: Springfield Missouri
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posted on 10-03-2004 at 17:49 |
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Make sure he knows how you feel about it. Guys are not mind readers and they don't like it when you expect them to be. Ultimately though it's your move, which way you want to go...
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bratello
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Registered: 10-04-2004 Location:
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posted on 10-04-2004 at 09:18 |
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Well if he can't make time for you then find someone who will. Talk to him about it and if he can"t give something up for at least 1 day to see you then he isnt worth your time
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Old_Fashioned
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Posts: 62
Registered: 07-04-2004 Location: Rhode Island, USA
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posted on 10-06-2004 at 00:00 |
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What they said
GuyVirgin and Bratello know what they are talking about. Take heed to their advice.
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Rkyeun
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Posts: 12
Registered: 11-24-2004 Location:
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posted on 11-25-2004 at 05:06 |
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Dating, relationships, and love. Choose carefully how you build your life. The situation may prove to be temporary, so if you feel that this is truley the one for you, it's definitely worth sticking it through. Be warned though, that this may be a preview of what to expect in your family life.
You must voice your concerns, plainly and unambiguously. Do not cover your words in flowers or nuance, lest their true meaning falter along the way.
Communication is the key, communication and love. Communication will connect two hearts from any point in the world, and love will grant the patience and strength to make those two points one again.
Out of all the world, you are expected to choose one to love through all of eternity, to experience heaven and suffer hell with. It can take time, and indeed you have plenty of it. Take your time and choose wisely. I hope you find someone worthy of you.
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