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underatree
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Registered: 06-30-2005 Location:
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posted on 06-30-2005 at 15:13 |
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i need lots of advice ladys and gents
I am 22 years old and I have always wanted to wait for marriage before sex because I was afraid of being used by someone and then I would regret my first time. I have now been dating a guy (who had only had sex with one other person whom he dated for 3 years) and I have been with him for 10months. I know that we love and care for each other deeply and I want to experience intercourse with him becasue I am so in love with him. We have sat down and talked about everything and what we would do in every situation if something were to come up. Should I wait longer like until marriage or should I have intercourse with him? He has never pressured me and he said that he was content with our intimacy. I trust him totally because he has never asked anything of me.
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kakitati
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Registered: 01-02-2006 Location:
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posted on 01-02-2006 at 03:54 |
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point of view
Hi, first of all I am a 22 years old virgin too, so I guess we share stuff togther.Well personally I would say wait til you get ( hopefully ) married to him. From what I see thease days, when sex gets involved in a bf/gf relationship, the actual realtionship looses its meaning and slowly it moves to a step that it s almost only based on having sex and you dont want that to happen! but once you get married that wont be the case because marriage gives you reponsabilities but other kind of relationships doesnt. Once you get married you already have in mind that you will be that person til the end, but if you are only bf/gf that is not always the case!!!
So from I what I see it is better you keep your virginity and make him the special husband that will make love to you instead of some guy having sex with you. and ofcourse it is totally up to you ^_^
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secretsquirrel
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Registered: 01-03-2006 Location:
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posted on 01-03-2006 at 21:45 |
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22 yr old virgin here too
'I am 22 years old and I have always wanted to wait for marriage before sex because I was afraid of being used by someone and then I would regret my first time. I have now been dating a guy (who had only had sex with one other person whom he dated for 3 years) and I have been with him for 10months. I know that we love and care for each other deeply and I want to experience intercourse with him becasue I am so in love with him. We have sat down and talked about everything and what we would do in every situation if something were to come up. Should I wait longer like until marriage or should I have intercourse with him? He has never pressured me and he said that he was content with our intimacy. I trust him totally because he has never asked anything of me.'
I'm a 22 year old virgin as well...although it's not a religious choice or anything. I have never found the guy that I love enough to have sex with. I hope he's out there.
I can't tell you what to do because this is such a personal choice. But if you feel you are ready and that you really love him and truly want to, then go for it. If you have the slightest doubt, maybe you shouldn't. You don't want to regret it.
He sounds like a great guy, and I wish you the best :)
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