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Lovestruck87
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Registered: 07-03-2005 Location:
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posted on 07-03-2005 at 22:28 |
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First Time??
I'm an 18 year old female who has been dating my current boyfriend for about a year and 4 months. I love him to death, but sometimes I feel like a prude because we haven't had sex yet. There have been times when we have gotten close but he always makes sure that I want to do it. He tells me that its my choice and that he is perfectly fine with where we are at. Sometimes I feel ready for sex but other times I dont. Do you think I'm ready?
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RobboRobboRobbo
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Registered: 08-31-2005 Location:
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posted on 08-31-2005 at 02:35 |
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Do it
Hey this is method 1-i think the best way to get out of your dilema would be to get it over and done with. I think to "over come your fear" u should ask your b/f not to make sure its alright with you the next time you guys try anything. i think you's 2 will be a gr8 couple for much longer coz you's have been so sensible so far. Once you's are goin with the flow you'l love what you's ar doin.
method 2-(pretty str8 forward) when you ar with your b/f when you's are feelin a little kinky, just ask him if he wants to do it at that time. perhaps sitting close to him stroking his leg and wisprin sumfin in his ear about how horny u ar shud be enuf 2 get him as aroused as you arText
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The Virgin Nurse
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Posts: 117
Registered: 06-04-2005 Location: Somewhere in Louisiana
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posted on 09-05-2005 at 19:54 |
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DON'T LISTEN TO RobboRobboRobbo!!!!
It is your choice! There is a sayin if you hold till marriage, the first time you have sex, it will be rememberable. You feel this way because your hormones are going as fast as the INDY 500. Think about it. Will he stay with you after you guys do it? Will you get a disease? Or, worst of all, would you get pregenant? Think ABOUT IT! BEFORE IT'S TO LATE!
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Amber
Junior Member
Posts: 16
Registered: 07-11-2005 Location: Canada
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posted on 09-09-2005 at 09:53 |
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opinion
ok I think that you will know when you are ready...which does not have to be on your wedding night! Your first time can be just as amazing if you are not married. A piece of paper is not going to change how much you love him/want to be with him. He has been with you for a year and 4 months, i assume that you love eachother. So when the time is right, (although it is nerve racking) go for it. Just be sure to wait until you feel you are ready. Your first time can be unforgettable, whether its next week or 4 years down the road on your wedding night, as long as you are with someone you are madly in love with.
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The Virgin Nurse
Senior Member
Posts: 117
Registered: 06-04-2005 Location: Somewhere in Louisiana
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posted on 09-26-2005 at 20:29 |
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oops
thanks for pointing that out, Amber...I should have not included a religion fact in there...oops
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