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Quiet_Guy
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Posts: 4
Registered: 10-12-2005 Location:
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posted on 10-12-2005 at 02:56 |
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Im tired of being a virgin
Hi all,
Im a 24 year old virgin and im sick of it!! Im a reasonably good looking guy and just cant understand why ive never had sex. I am now very seriously considering paying for sex. (if any girls are interested, please contact me as I am serious about this).
I know losing your virginity is a huge thing for girls, but for guys, and especially me its not really a big deal in my mind. I think if I can just have sex once then maybe my confidence will go up and it will be easier from then on. Maybe as the years have gone by, ive just got it into my mind that still being a virgin is no problem and to carry on with the rest of my life. And although this is completely true, im sick of it!!
Does anyone have any advice or maybe a discussion we can have.
Thanks
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The Virgin Nurse
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Posts: 117
Registered: 06-04-2005 Location: Somewhere in Louisiana
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posted on 10-16-2005 at 21:17 |
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hummmm...
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Hi all,
Im a 24 year old virgin and im sick of it!! Im a reasonably good looking guy and just cant understand why ive never had sex. I am now very seriously considering paying for sex. (if any girls are interested, please contact me as I am serious about this).
I know losing your virginity is a huge thing for girls, but for guys, and especially me its not really a big deal in my mind. I think if I can just have sex once then maybe my confidence will go up and it will be easier from then on. Maybe as the years have gone by, ive just got it into my mind that still being a virgin is no problem and to carry on with the rest of my life. And although this is completely true, im sick of it!!
Does anyone have any advice or maybe a discussion we can have.
Thanks
Ok....Think about...what lasts longer or can ...money or your virginity...Since you still have your virginity..it makes you special..your different then other guys...I know your sick off being one but just wait for that certain lady. Don't go and get someone off the street or from a club and pay them just because your tired from being a virgin...BTW, people who lose their virginity from someone that they don't love, they will become very depress and regret from that moment. Once someone takes your virginty..it's gone....forever (unless you believe in secondary virginity)....wait...don't pay someone who is souless and take away something so dear to you. If your virginity was dear to you, then why do you still have it? This should tell you something. You care. You waiting for this long period time shows that you are stronger than your body urges or jealously towards others because they have had sex. Just wait. Take an oath. Also, think about what could happen after you pay someone for sex. Will you be guilty? Will you go into depression? What if you contract something from the sex? Think about. Good luck.
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Francie81
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Posts: 1
Registered: 12-28-2005 Location: Ireland
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posted on 12-28-2005 at 18:45 |
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No big deal
Hey "Quiet" you ain't alone, am 24 myself, handsome and am still a virgin and to be honest am sick of it also because I do feel am ready, I don't mind saying it here but I would be too embarrassed admitting to anyone else that knows me. I often thought of paying but I thought again and would have to go along with "nurse" with a big "NO". See I was brought up quiet and never socialised when I was younger so that speaks for itself but I did come out of my shell few years ago and am working on it by starting to be more outgoing when I am out as I don't like being the quiet type so am trying to change myself because I know I can only do it and I know its gonna be tough but am determined to. I think you should try the same and start talking to as many girls as possible even if ya don't find them attractive you will notice your confidence rising and thats exactly what they love, I know its easier said than done but it can be done thats why am gonna provail, only you can change. But am not gonna worry too much because at the end of the day no one is better than you cos they lost their virginity and you didn't, they only think their more of a man which is nonsense because its only sex, theirs 1000's of beauty's out there waiting for the likes of us, so don't worry too much and keep the head up.
Francie
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