vivian19
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posted on 05-15-2006 at 14:39 |
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Am I gay
I am a virgin female, and was at a party over the weekend. My girl friends was drunk and we were lying on her bed talking about sex.
She leaned over to me and gave me a kiss with her tongue . I did not know what to do.
after a few seconds she tried to put her hand up my blouse and I jumped back and left the room.
I never had any feelings towards a women before. But a did feel very excited when she kissed me. Does this mean I am gay???
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LadyLucid
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posted on 05-16-2006 at 01:33 |
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Kay
The key is you said you were excited.
Go out, shave your head and buy a cat, because hunny you are a lesbian.
it's cool though, but you shall face years and years of social stigma. Have fun!
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SilentOne
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posted on 05-16-2006 at 23:31 |
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Vivian
You are not necessarily gay vivian, you just got excited and havent had much exposure to sex, its natural for that to happen. Don't take what happened too far and start thinking you can only be aroused by females now as I assure you that isn't the case.
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arronbond
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posted on 05-18-2006 at 03:58 |
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does it matter
all if not most of my freinds are either gay or bi but does it matter anyway whatever youre sexuallorientation is its totally irellavent anyway so dont worry about it or just decide this is me accept me as i am or fuck off its a good policy to live by
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cccccrazy
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posted on 05-18-2006 at 14:16 |
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:)
I know a lot of people that lesbian/bi, a lot of people that are straight, and a lot of people that pretend to be lesbian/bi. A lot of the people that are lesbians or that pretend to be, started wondering after parties, like the one you described.
Just because you kissed a girl doesn't mean you're gay. But since you got excited, you've got good reason to wonder.
If it's really important to you and you can't stop wondering if you're gay or not, experiment. Hang around guys, hang around girls, and just see who you feel more excited around.
If it isn't bothering you 24/7, my advice is to just take it a day at a time and go wtih the flow. Don't put yourself into a group such as lesbian or straight because of something that happened one night. Don't fake any feelings just to be normal or fit in, whether it's to fit in with lebsians or to fit in with straight people. Do what you feel , not what you think :)
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Bred_Rong
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posted on 08-10-2006 at 07:54 |
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well...
My dad used to give BJs to American sailors, that didn't mean he was gay, it just meant that he had tuition to pay.
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Gonzalez87
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posted on 08-15-2006 at 05:54 |
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R U Gay
Your still growing, although your life you will get urges you can't understand or that confuse you as far has sexuality goes.
Just remember if you are gay it's nothing to be ashamed of.
And if your not , then good luck with that 2.
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AyaSan
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posted on 08-25-2006 at 22:58 |
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I thought of that too
actually when i was younger, i really hated men cause of my father n brother, where never really there for the family. but yeah, anyway! i read somewhere that said, you are not a gay or lesbian unless you have had actually fantisies having sexual actions with another guy or girl. i hope it helps! it helped me.
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