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susan
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Registered: 07-07-2004 Location:
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posted on 07-07-2004 at 11:41 |
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Hmmmm...
I have a question. What do you guys think of experimenting sexually to find out more about your own sexuality? There's a guy at my school whom I am very attracted to. That hardly ever happens to me. Up until I started school this year, I was pretty positive that I was a lesbian, but as soon as I went back, I wanted him all over again. I went out with him last year, but eventually broke up with him for my first girlfriend. Surprisingly, we've remained good friends. I have a feeling he still cares about me, and I'm almost positive he would say yes if I talked to him about it.
I know there's a possibility that I might freak out and not be able to do anything with him if we ever get to that point, but there's also a chance that I'll enjoy it. I really can't tell anymore in my head. I get confused when I try to think about what I want, girls, guys, or both. So I figure, if I have this chance, I'll be able to tell if I'll ever be able to be with a guy or even actually want to be.
I trust this guy, so I know he wouldn't try anything that I didn't want him to or take advantage of me. I know that I can tell him no. I know if I want to stop it can stop.
I am kind of worried about what will happen with the friendship afterwards and if there really will be no strings attached.
I don't know if I'm making sense anymore, I just wanted to explain the situation and ask what you guys thought about it, or experimentation in general. Thanks!
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auntpolly
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Registered: 05-20-2004 Location:
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posted on 07-07-2004 at 11:47 |
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I think that depends n both persons and what they want.
Maybe you should talk to him, analyze your relationship and what do you want.
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