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SAURI_90210
Newbie
Posts: 2
Registered: 07-28-2009 Location: Amsterdam
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posted on 07-28-2009 at 09:05 |
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I need help.
I am married for last 14 years. But I now I am really tired with my marriage. He was not the man he used to be before. he always looking for something to give me the blame. And all the time he gets angry and he really hates that I go to work. He wants me to stay at home 24/7.One of my friends told me to make another child but my mind is telling me that does not help due to the situation. Please some one can helps me to find out what is going on with my husband because in case he is crazy then I need to take him to a mental ward. I really need your help ladies and gentleman
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belljar28
Newbie
Posts: 4
Registered: 09-23-2009 Location:
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posted on 09-23-2009 at 10:41 |
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Ok
Before advising for divorce this is what i would recommend. Divorce can be a lengthy and heart breaking process. If you have kids then you need to think of custody, child support, divorce attorneys, the whole nine yards.
With that being said is your husband acting crazy, or is he just acting uninterested? Is he showing signs of aggression that make you afraid or is he just losing his flavor? Making another child to "fix" your current family problems is NOT THE ANSWER! So many people make this mistake and it just makes things worse on top of the fact that it is completely and utterly unfair for the child because you are going to add more tension and stress in your marriage.
My advice to you would be to explain how you feel. How you notice that he is not the same man you once knew. How you wish things could be the way they were and ask him if he has any ideas as to bring that spark back in your relationship. If he is responsive and actually expresses himself openly, honestly, and constructively then maybe this will end up working out for you. If he acts irrational, angry, or throws a temper tantrum then maybe you should just file for divorce and get away from him.
Make sure to legally seperate to show him you mean business. Hire a divorce attorney and do your research before jumping the gun.
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nicperry11
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Posts: 12
Registered: 04-10-2011 Location:
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posted on 05-30-2011 at 03:54 |
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Talk in Private
Just talk to your husband privately. Conversation is good everytime you did not understand your partner now. I think that a simple talk with him will open the issue between you and your husband. Just try!
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